13 Abr Where Oh Where Are the Single Black Lesbians?
As a Black MoC butch lesbian looking for love online, I can tell you that they're not on OkCupid or Dattch or any other online dating site. It's really sad to me because I don't know where else to look. We're all so busy and these busy schedules prevent us from having enough social time to meet dateable people and online sites have become the alternative, especially when it comes to finding someone special and not just hooking up.
Back then there were quite a few black lesbians on the site
Interestingly enough, most of the faces I saw on those Yahoo profile pics ended up becoming great friends of mine in the black queer community. Much of the 21 to 30 year old crowd then transitioned from Yahoo to Downelink. That site had a HUGE black community. But it quickly devolved into a hookup site as more people started posting pictures and messages that would never meet the community standards of traditional dating sites. Although it was a great place to find booty shots and I think it may have been the birthplace of “selfie modeling,” it wasn't really conducive to cultivating mature relationships.